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Friday, October 26, 2012

DEVELOPING FRIENDSHIPS


DEVELOPING FRIENDSHIPS WITH AUTISM

Although young children with autism may seem to prefer to be by themselves, one of the most important issues for older children and adults is the development of friendships with peers. It can take a great deal of time and effort for them to develop the social skills needed to be able to interact successfully with other children, but it is important to start early. In addition, bullying in middle and high school can be a major problem for students with autism, and the development of friendships is one of the best ways to prevent this problem. Friendships can be encouraged informally by inviting other children to the home to play.  In school, recess can be a valuable time for teachers to encourage play with other children.  Furthermore, time can be set aside in school for formal “play time” between children with autism and volunteer peers – typical children usually think that play time is much more fun than regular school, and it can help develop lasting friendships.  This is probably one of the most important issues to include in a student’s Individualized Education Program (IEP, or education plan for the child).  Children with autism often develop friendships through shared interests, such as computers, school clubs, model airplanes, etc. Encourage activities that the autistic individual can share with others.

AUTISM


WHAT IS AUTISM?

Autism is a developmental disability that typically involves delays and impairment in social skills, language, and behavior. Autism is a spectrum disorder, meaning that it affects people differently. Some children may have speech, whereas others may have little or no speech. Less severe cases may be diagnosed with Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD) or with Asperger’s Syndrome (these children typically have normal speech, but they have many “autistic” social and behavioral problems). Left untreated, many autistic children will not develop effective social skills and may not learn to talk or behave appropriately. Very few individuals recover completely from autism without any intervention. The good news is that there are a wide variety of treatment options which can be very helpful. Some treatments may lead to great improvement, whereas other treatments may have little or no effect. No treatment helps everyone. A variety of effective treatment options will be discussed below.

What is the difference between Asperger’s Syndrome and Autism?

Asperger syndrome is usually considered a subtype of high-functioning autism. Most of the individuals with Asperger syndrome are described as “social but awkward.” That is, they want to have friends, but they do not have the social skills to begin and/or maintain a friendship.  While high-functioning autistic individuals may also be “social but awkward,” they are typically less interested in having friends. In addition, high-functioning autistic individuals are often delayed in developing speech/language. Those with Asperger syndrome tend not to have speech/language delays, but their speech is usually described as peculiar, such as being stilted and perseverating on unusual topics.


GENETICS OF AUTISM

Genetics appear to play an important role in causing some cases of autism. Several studies have shown that when one identical twin has autism, the other co-twin often has autism.  In contrast, when one fraternal twin has autism, the co-twin is rarely autistic. Studies trying to identify specific genes associated with autism have been inconclusive. Currently, it appears that 20 or more genes may be associated with autism. This is in contrast to other disorders, such as Fragile X or Rett’s syndrome, in which single genes have been identified. A large number of studies have found that autistic individuals often have compromised immune systems. In fact, autism is sometimes described as an autoimmune system disorder.  One working hypothesis of autism is that the child’s immune system is compromised genetically and/or environmentally (e.g., exposure to chemicals). This may predispose the child to autism. Then, exposure to an (additional) environmental insult may lead to autism (e.g., the MMR vaccine) or mercury-containing vaccine preservatives (i.e., thimerosal). If parents have a child with autism, there is an increased likelihood that their future children will also develop autism. Many studies have identified cognitive disabilities, which sometimes go undetected, in siblings of autistic children. Siblings should be evaluated for possible developmental delays and learning disabilities, such as dyslexia.

COMMON CO-OCCURRING CONDITIONS IN AUTISM

1.     Mental Retardation: Although it has been estimated that up to 75% of people with autism have mental retardation, research studies have frequently used inappropriate IQ tests, such as verbal tests with nonverbal children and, in some cases, estimating the child’s intelligence level without any objective evidence. Parents should request non-verbal intelligence tests that do not require language skills, such as the Test for Nonverbal Intelligence (TONI). Furthermore, regardless of the result, realize that autistic children will develop more skills as they grow older, and that appropriate therapies and education can help them reach their true potential.
2.     Seizures: It is estimated that 25% of autistic individuals also develop seizures, some in early childhood and others as they go through puberty (changes in hormone levels may trigger seizures). These seizures can range from mild (e.g., gazing into space for a few seconds) to severe, grand mal seizures. Many autistic individuals have subclinical seizures which are not easily noticeable but can significantly affect mental function. A short one- or two-hour EEG may not be able to detect any abnormal activity, so a 24-hour EEG may be necessary. Although drugs can be used to reduce seizure activity, the child’s health must be checked regularly because these drugs can be harmful. There is substantial evidence that certain nutritional supplements, especially vitamin B6 and dimethylglycine (DMG), can provide a safer and more effective alterative to drugs, for many individuals.
3.     Chronic Constipation and/or Diarrhea: An analysis of the ARI’s autism database of thousands of cases show over 50% of autistic children have chronic constipation and/or diarrhea. Diarrhea may actually be due to constipation—i.e., only liquid is able to leak past a constipated stool mass in the intestine. Manual probing often fails to find an impaction. An endoscopy may be the only way to check for this problem. Consultation with a pediatric gastroenterologist is required.
4.     Sleep Problems: Many autistic individuals have sleep problems. Night waking may be due to reflux of stomach acid into the esophagus. Placing bricks under the head of the bed may help keep stomach acid from rising and provide better sleep.  Melatonin has been very useful in helping many autistic individuals fall asleep. Other popular interventions include using 5-HTP and implementing a behavior modification program designed to induce sleep. Vigorous exercise will help a child sleep, and other sleep aids are a weighted blanket or tight fitting mummy-type sleeping bag.
5.     Pica: 30% of children with autism have moderate to severe pica. Pica refers to eating non-food items such as paint, sand, dirt, paper, etc. Pica can expose the child to heavy metal poisoning, especially if there is lead in the paint or in the soil.
6.     Low Muscle Tone: A study conducted by the first author found that 30% of autistic children have moderate to severe loss of muscle tone, and this can limit their gross and fine motor skills. That study found that these children tend to have low potassium levels. Increased consumption of fruit may be helpful.
7.  Sensory Sensitivities: Many autistic children have unusual sensitivities to sounds, sights, touch, taste, and smells. High-pitched intermittent sounds, such as fire alarms or school bells, may be painful to autistic children. Scratchy fabrics may also be intolerable, and some children have visual sensitivities. They are troubled by the flickering of fluorescent lights. If the child often has tantrums in large supermarkets, it is possible that he/she has severe sensory oversensitivity. Sensory sensitivities are highly variable in autism, from mild to severe. In some children, the sensitivities are mostly auditory, and in others, mostly visual. It is likely that many individuals who remain non-verbal have both auditory and visual processing problems, and sensory input may be scrambled. Even though a pure tone hearing test may imply normal hearing, the child may have difficulty hearing auditory details and hard consonant sounds. Some children have very high pain thresholds (i.e., be insensitive to pain), whereas others have very low pain thresholds.  Interventions designed to help normalize their senses, such as sensory integration, Auditory Integration Training (AIT), and Irlen lenses, are discussed later in this paper.

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Heather Whitestone


PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY
Heather Whitestone


The new Miss America for 1995 is...(drum roll)...Heather Whitestone of Birmingham, Alabama!

There she is...Miss America. But unlike other Miss America crown holders, Heather never actually heard those words in 1995 as she was crowned. Miss Whitestone was the first person with a disability ever to be selected as Miss America. Heather had been deaf since the age of 18 months. Doctors told Heather’s parents that she would never read beyond the third grade level, nor learn to speak. In response to the judges’ question about her aim in life, she replied that she would like to assist children from all backgrounds to reach their fullest potential in life, to set high goals, and achieve them, as she had done. Heather’s special talent for the Miss America talent portion of the contest was ballet.

Heather Whitestone is currently the spokesperson for the Helen Keller Eye Research Foundation and the Starkey Hearing Aid Foundation. She has also authored a book entitled, Listening with My Heart. Ms. Whitestone is a motivational speaker who believes in and promotes following your dreams. She is now married and expecting her second child in 2001.

In 2002 she decided to have a cochlear implant operation in order to hear more fully in her right ear. The primary motivator for electing the surgery was an incident when she did not hear her son's cries for help. She said that she has not regretted her decision, thanking her family for supporting her.

Marla Runyan


PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY
Marla Runyan


One of the women representing the United States in the 1500 meter track event at the 2000 Olympics was Marla Runyan.  The American runner finished seventh in her preliminary heat and rose to sixth in the semifinals to qualify for the finals.   During the final race, Marla lost track of the major competitors.  She finished in eighth position, 3.20 seconds behind the gold medal winner.

In 1996, Marla set several track and field records at the Paralympics in Atlanta, Georgia.  Following that success, Marla wanted to compete in the 2000 Olympics in Sydney -- even though she is legally blind.  The 31-year-old runner has been diagnosed with Stargardt disease.  This is a condition that leaves her with a limited ability to see what is in front of her.  In Sydney, Marla became the first legally blind athlete to compete in an Olympics.

Patricia Polacco


PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY
Patricia Polacco


Patricia Polacco is a writer and illustrator of children's books.  She did not start writing children's books until she was 41 years old!  Patricia majored in Fine Art and received her Ph.D. in Art History.  Ms. Polacco now lives on an old historical farmstead in Union City, Michigan.  She named her farmstead Meteor Ridge.  You can read all about the meteor that landed in Ms. Polacco's grandparents' yard by reading her book Meteor.  For more information on this and other books Ms. Polacco has written, visit her website at http://www.patriciapolacco.com/.

The unique thing about Patricia Polacco is that she has been writing children's books even after she was diagnosed as having Dyslexia, Dysnumeria and Dysgraphia at the age of 14.  Patricia did not learn to read well until after she was 14 years old.  A teacher was able to get the additional help Ms. Pollaco needed to overcome her reading problems!  Ms. Pollaco has written a book about her experiences and this teacher who helped her.  The book is titled Thank You, Mr. Falker.  You can find information about this book at the website mentioned above.  Enjoy!

Itzhak Perlman

PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY
Itzhak Perlman


Perlman began his music career at the Academy of Music in Tel-Aviv, Israel. In 1958, at the age of 13, Itzhak Perlman won an Israeli talent competition. This win made it possible for Perlman to travel to the United States to tour and appear on television. He then stayed in the U.S. and continued his musical training at the Juilliard School in New York City. In 1964, Perlman won a contest among young musicians known as the Leventritt Competition. Winning this competition opened the door for young Perlman to perform his violin music all over the world.

Itzhak, now an acclaimed violinist of his generation, has performed with every major orchestra and in recitals and festivals the world over. In 1986, he received the nation’s Medal of Liberty from U.S. President Ronald Reagan. His joy of making music has captivated audiences and has achieved Perlman a level of respect and admiration among people of many nations. Great violin concertos make up the core of Perlman’s recorded music, ranging from the baroque to the contemporary. Perlman is also featured in the hit movie Music of the Heart.

Born (1945) in Tel Aviv, Israel, Itzhak Perlman contracted polio at age 4, permanently paralyzing his legs. He performs his music while seated and walks with crutches. Itzhak is a well known advocate for people with disabilities, actively promoting laws to ease access to buildings and transportation.

Terence Parkin


PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY
Terence Parkin


Many swimmers competed in multiple events during the 2000 Olympics in Sydney, Australia.  One of them was Terence Parkin of South Africa.  Terence's events included the 200 and 400 meter individual medley, the 4x100 meter free relay, and the 100 and 200 meter breaststroke.  He swam in a total of eight different qualifying and final races in five days during the Olympics.  Terence finished fifth in the 400 meter individual medley.  In the 200 meter breaststroke, he finished second to win the silver medal.

What makes this 20-year-old Olympic swimmer somewhat unique is that he has never been able to hear a race starter's signal.  Born deaf, Terence uses a strobe light similar to a camera flash to signal the beginning of the race.  The Olympic competitor only began swimming at age 14.  Now he holds three national records in South Africa and owns a silver medal from the Sydney Olympics.

Geri Jewell and Marlee Matlin


PERSONS WHO ARE SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF THEIR DISABILITY
Geri Jewell and Marlee Matlin


Geri Jewell is an actor and comedian born with cerebral palsy. She is most famous for her roles on The Facts of Life and HBO's Deadwood. Geri was awarded a National Rehabilitation Hospital Victory Award in 2006 and also works as a motivational speaker. Visit her website at http://www.gerijewell.com/.



Marlee Matlin is a stand-up comedian and an actress. Some of her films include Dead Silence, It's My Party, Hear No Evil, Bridge to Silence, Walker, and Children of A Lesser God. In 1987, she captivated the world by winning the Academy Award for Best Actress in the film Children of a Lesser God.

Marlee Matlin became deaf in infancy due to Roseola infantum.

Henry Holden


PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY
Henry Holden

From the time he was a young child, Henry Holden’s dream was that of becoming an actor. To date Henry has numerous acting credits to his name. He has made appearances on T. J. Hooker, AFTERmash, Hill Street Blues, Knots Landing, Hunter, Dear John, and Kids Incorporated. Henry also starred in a rock video, entitled, "I Got News for You." In addition to acting, Henry is an athlete, stand-up comic, and activist. Henry’s athletic accomplishments include downhill skiing, certified scuba diving, bowling a high score of 196 in league competition, flying gliders and single engine airplanes, riding at the National Horse Show at Madison Square Garden in New York City, and finishing in the Los Angeles Marathon. Finishing the New York City Marathon is on Henry’s "To Do" list!

Henry Holden contracted polio during the 1952 Epidemic. He was four years old at that time. His disability has never stopped him from pursuing a path of excellence in his life, even though he wears leg braces and uses crutches. In addition to his acting career he now speaks on the guest lecture circuit on college campuses and K-12 schools across the country. Henry is a tireless advocate for the inclusion of persons with disabilities in all forms of entertainment and media. He is the founder of Performers with Disabilities for the Screen Actors Guild, and recently, he was the recipient of the very first American Scene Award given by the Screen Actors Guild and the American Federation of Television and Radio Arts for the rock video he starred in entitled I’ve Got News For You. Henry’s motto is "Attitudes are the Real Disability!"
See Henry's web site for more information on this actor, comedian, and athlete: http://www.henryholden.com/.

Stephen Hawking


PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY
Stephen Hawking

Stephen Hawking knew what he wanted to do by the time he was eight years old. He did not want to study medicine, a career his parents hoped he would follow. Instead, Hawking decided to be a scientist and chose physics. Stephen was interested in studying the universe. He attended Oxford University in England, as an undergraduate student. He received his PhD in 1966 from Cambridge University. By the time he was 35 years old, Hawking was Cambridge’s first Gravitational Physics professor and received the Lucasian Professor of Mathematics award.

Stephen Hawking has also published a book called A Brief History of Time: From the Big Bang to Black Holes. The book tries to explain many of Hawking’s physical and mathematical ideas and calculations without using math. The book became a best seller and was made into a movie.

When Stephen Hawking was 21-years-old, he was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease. This disease attacks the nerves that control a body’s voluntary movements. It affects walking, speaking, breathing, swallowing, etc. At the time of his diagnosis, the doctors gave Hawking two years to live. Hawking has defied this time frame and is still working. Today, Stephen cannot move much at all, has trouble holding his head up, and cannot speak, though he doesn't let it stop him. He now uses a special computer that displays the text he types and speaks what he types with an electronic voice.

Michael J. Fox


PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY
Michael J. Fox


Michael J. Fox is an actor best known for his roles in Back to the Future movies and in the televisions shows Family Ties and Spin City. In 1991 Michael J. Fox was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease.

Fox retired from full-time acting in 2000, but still makes an occasional appearance on screen or television. He is married with four children and an advocate of stem cell research.

Patty Duke


PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY
Patty Duke


Patty Duke is an actress. She has won three Emmy Awards for made-for-television movies. In 1965, at the age of 17, Patty became the youngest person to win an Academy Award in a regular category (Best Supporting Actress) for her role as Helen Keller in the motion-picture version of The Miracle Worker. At the age of 13, Patty starred as Helen Keller in William Gibson's play The Miracle Worker.

As part of Patty's plan to win the Helen Keller role in the play, Patty would practice at being a person with a visual impairment. She would blindfold herself and practice eating, dressing, and moving around. Patty also learned the manual sign language alphabet in preparation for her audition. It was her determination and practice that won her the role as Helen Keller.

Although successful as an actress, Patty was a very unhappy person. In 1982 Patty was finally diagnosed as having a manic-depressive disorder. Manic depression is a disease caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain. Patty continues to cope with this disability with medication.  The medicine is not a cure but makes the symptoms of manic depression easier to control. Patty is still an actress, but also tours the country as a disability advocate, giving talks and answering questions about manic depression and other mental illnesses.

Tom Cruise


PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY
Tom Cruise

Tom Cruise is among the most talented actors in Hollywood. His films take in hundreds of millions of dollars and his fans also number in the millions. Some of his big hits were Top Gun, Days of Thunder, Rain Man, Far and Away, A Few Good Men, Mission Impossible, and Jerry Mcguire.

Even though Tom Cruise battles dyslexia, which is a learning disability that alters the way the brain process written material, he was nominated for and won several awards for best actor.

Chris Burke


PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY

Chris Burke



Chris Burke, best known for the character, Corky, played for four years on the television series, Life Goes On, and became one of America's favorite personalities. Through his work, he was able to transform America's image of the people with disabilities. Ever since Chris spoke his first word, it became clear that he was a remarkable individual with many talents.

Chris Burke was the first person with Down syndrome to star in a weekly television series. Currently, he serves as the National Down Syndrome Society (NDSS) Ambassador. Chris had the faith in his own abilities and the courage to face prejudice as he pursued his dream to become an actor.

Today Chris travels all around the country delivering inspirational speeches to various groups of children, students, parents, and professionals. He not only serves as editor-in-chief of the NDSS magazine for teens and young adults with Down syndrome, but also writes a column and responds to readers' correspondence in a regular question and answer feature in the magazine.

Jim Abbott

PERSON WHO WAS SUCCESSFUL INSPITE OF DISABILITY

Jim Abbott


Jim Abbott has thrown a no-hitter, won Olympic gold in 1988, and been on Letterman. He is one of a handful of professional players who never once put on a minor-league uniform, jumping instead straight from college baseball to the big league. But those aren't the only reasons we know Jim Abbott. He is the only player in major league baseball who was born with one hand.

Abbott was able to reach the major league without having a right hand, and he quickly became one of the better pitchers in the game during the early 1990's.

Friday, September 14, 2012

7 RELATIONSHIP DESTROYERS


7 RELATIONSHIP DESTROYERS

So, how is your relationship going? Coasting along, or are you skirting in between the landmines? These are seven things that will sabotage any relationship.

Jealousy. Possessiveness and jealousy on your part will only make your partner feel trapped. This could lead to them wanting to get away from you, because you make them feel claustrophobic. Ironically the single thing you wanted to prevent.

Sexual problems. If you are having sexual problems, and are unable to talk about them, or get it together to go for professional help, alarm bells should be ringing. Different people have different sexual needs, so once a week may be quite sufficient for one partner, but not for the other.

Old issues. Long shadows from the past can cast a pall over present relationships. If you have abandonment issues, self-image issues, self-worth issues, drug issues, dependency issues or endless financial issues, it is unrealistic to expect them not to have an impact on the relationship you are currently having.

Financial woes. Financial worry is part and parcel of life – few couples never have these. But constant agonising about money, running up of debts and misspending can cause a lot of tension in any relationship. When couples are unable to synchronise their spending habits or their financial values, trouble looms.

Parenting styles. Parents need to present a united front to their children. If one parent allows the kids to do things and the other forbids it, it causes confusion for the children and stress in relationships. When children are stepchildren, this becomes even more important. Parents need to decide on certain ground rules and stick to them.

In-law troubles. When parents are unhappy with your choice of spouse, or parents are unwilling to let go of their child and let him/her start a new life, it causes great trouble for the couple. There is ongoing stress and family dramas and everyone feels they are being pulled in different directions.

Old flames. Sometimes there are old boyfriends or girlfriends who just won't back off. This can cause endless dramas and jealous fits. If it really upsets your partner that you see an old flame, weigh up the different issues here. Is a cup of tea with an old boyfriend really worth an unpleasant atmosphere at home for days? On the other hand, does your partner perhaps have a reason to feel insecure?

(Susan Erasmus Health 24, updated June 2012)

Sunday, September 9, 2012

SELF-CONFIDENCE FORMULA


SELF-CONFIDENCE FORMULA
from the book of The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill

First: I know that I have the ability to achieve the object of my definite purpose, therefore I demand of myself persistent, aggressive and continuous action toward its attainment.

Second: I realize that the dominating thoughts of my mind eventually reproduce themselves in outward, bodily action, and gradually transform themselves into physical reality, therefore I will concentrate my mind for thirty minutes daily upon the task of thinking of the person I intend to be, by creating a mental picture of this person and then transforming that picture into reality through practical service.

Third: I know that through the principle of Autosuggestion, any desire that I persistently hold in my mind will eventually seek expression through some practical means of realizing it, therefore I shall devote ten minutes daily to demanding of myself the development of the factors named in the sixteen lessons of this Reading Course on the Law of Success.

Fourth: I have clearly mapped out and written down a description of my definite purpose in life, for the
coming five years. I have set a price on my services for each of these five years; a price that I intend to earn and receive, through strict application of the principle of efficient, satisfactory service which I will render in
advance.

Fifth: I fully realize that no wealth or position can long endure unless built upon truth and justice, therefore I will engage in no transaction which does not benefit all whom it affects. 1 will succeed by attracting to me the forces I wish to use, and the co-operation of other people. I will induce others to serve me because I will first serve them. I will eliminate hatred, envy, jealousy, selfishness and cynicism by developing love for all humanity, because I know that a negative attitude toward others can never bring me success. I will cause others to believe in me because I will believe in them and in myself.

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill


The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill

Young men and young women could be taught how to succeed in life by developing the ability to THINK in practical rather than in theoretical terms; where they would be taught to "learn by doing."

Every great railroad, and every outstanding financial institution and every mammoth business enterprise, and every great invention, began in the imagination of some one person.

Fortunate is the young man or young woman who learns, early in life, to use imagination, and doubly so in this age of greater opportunity. Imagination is a faculty of the mind which can be cultivated, developed, extended and broadened by use.

Wherever you are, whoever you are, whatever you may be following as an occupation, there is room for you to make yourself more useful, and in that manner more productive, by developing and using your "imagination."

Success in this world is always a matter of individual effort, yet you will only be deceiving yourself if you believe that you can succeed without the co-operation of other people. Success is a matter of individual effort only to the extent that each person must decide, in his or her own mind, what is wanted. This involves the use of "imagination." From this point on, achieving success is a matter of skillfully and tactfully inducing others to cooperate.  Before you can secure co-operation from others; nay, before you have the right to ask for or expect co-operation from other people, you must first show a willingness to co-operate with them.

Monday, September 3, 2012

Disability Advocate

Disability Advocate

A disability advocate is someone who wants to show their support by educating others about a disabling condition. Disability advocates are agents for change and they can accomplish this goal in a variety of ways. Whether you want to dive into an advocacy role full time or volunteer when you have a little time in your schedule, being an advocate is something everyone can do.

Advocates who want to be involved in helping raise awareness of a disability should let their volunteer coordinators know how much time they want to spend for the organization and to what extent. Some people only want to spend a few hours a month answering phones, while others have more time to organize fundraisers and charity events. No matter what your level of commitment is, it will always be appreciated. Through advocacy you will become the voice of those who otherwise may not be heard.

What Does an Advocate Do?


What Does an Advocate Do?

An advocate can be involved in educating others about disability issues in many different ways. Some of these ways include faxing legislators, assisting with email campaigns, writing blogs or creating websites. Advocates are usually volunteers who work with various disability foundations, though some individuals may eventually decide to raise awareness for their cause on a full time basis.

Who Can Be an Advocate?


Who Can Be an Advocate?

You don't need to have a doctor's degree or be a caregiver of a disabled person to become an advocate. Advocates are individuals who have some spare time to volunteer in their community. They may have learned about a specific disability from a friend or family member and have decided that they would like to champion that cause. In many instances advocates are people who have been touched by a disability, either as a caregiver, friend or relative. In some cases the advocates are those who are disabled themselves.

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

CONSIDERING …


CONSIDERING …

It is commonly accepted that many men are attracted to women with large breasts or long, slender legs, or lustrous blonde hair. However, other men are equally drawn to very petite women, women with dark hair, or wide hips. Some men are drawn sexually to other men. These and many other variations of sexual attraction are well known and usually accepted. The fact that some men are attracted to individuals who are missing one or more limbs is less well known but no less definite. The individuals who are attracted to amputees are often known as "amputee devotees."
To many amputees the concept that someone would find the remnant of their amputated limb sexually appealing is surprising and perhaps even incredible. It flies in the face of reason that an amputation makes them more rather than less attractive to another person. Especially while the amputee is struggling with crucial issues of self-acceptance, body image, and self-worth, the concept that someone finds their amputation especially appealing may be highly disconcerting. Their tolerance of the concept of amputee devotees may be nonexistent. If the amputee is questioning his or her desirability, how can anyone else find him or her desirable?

CURIOUSITY about DEVOTEE


CURIOUSITY about DEVOTEE

I was curious about devotee. Why they feel attracted to the amputee. So I conducted research about them. There are a few articles in the scientific literature that mention this attraction for amputees and there are a few articles in the popular press that also mention it. There is no adequate scientific explanation of why some people feel this attraction to people with amputations but there is also no verified explanation for the other aspects of human sexual interest. My purpose of this article is not to try to explain the inexplicable, it is simply to inform amputees that amputee devotees exist so that amputees may make more intelligent and valid choices.
No one has ever conclusively show why one person is romantically or sexually attracted to another. Certainly many factors are involved in an attraction including physical appearance, grooming, ability to speak well, wit, financial resources, intelligence, thoughtfulness and many others. Some of these factors seem to be much more important in the initial attraction process than others. Physical appearance seems to be the primary attractor for most men and probably many women. Only after the personal contact is made, following initial attraction, is it possible to find out enough about the other person to identify the wit, intelligence, thoughtfulness, fidelity and other more important and lasting qualities.

DEVOTEE man… Why amputee woman?


DEVOTEE man…
Why amputee woman?

Many amputees, especially females, find it very hard to accept that males can be attracted to them because of their disability. This is most probably linked to the taboo about sexuality associated with disability. Amputees are non-sexual persons and this often includes the disabled themselves. Being attracted to someone else who happens to be disabled is perceived as suspect, and when this person admits that it is the disability that was the primary attractor then fuses are blowing and you'll hear many disconcerting comments. There might be many reasons for someone to be attracted to someone else who is disabled, but actually the moral matter is not about the reasons but about the ways.
Whatever the reasons why devotee feels him attracted to amputee, and there can't possibly be 'normal' definitions in this area. What important is that both parties be OK with it. This means that the Devotee should make it clear early in the relationship about his motivations and that the partner acknowledges there is nothing intrinsically wrong about it, providing the attraction is focused on the person, who is an Amputee, and not to the amputation itself or the associated helping devices such as crutches, prosthesis or wheelchair. This would be fetishism and another matter altogether. It is important to know that many Devotees are actually fetishists, which can be quite problematic in a relationship as the focus of the attraction is an inanimate object and not a person.
I am wondering why most men feel attracted to the amputee women. I already conducted research but it doesn’t help me to find out “why”? Even some devotee men that I asked - they don’t know “why”?

Saturday, August 18, 2012

Devoteeism


When most people first hear about disability d, it sounds disturbing.  We tend to see people with disabilities in the same category as young children and the very old.  They need protecting, they are frail and unable to compete in the regular workings of society.  So someone wanting to have sex with them?  It sounds sick and wrong.
 The problem is not with the attraction, the problem is with the view that society has.  Adults who have physical disabilities are just that, adults.  They have the same sexual feelings and desires as anyone else and they have the maturity to consent to sex if they want to.
 There are other reasons why some might find it taboo.  How could we biologically and evolutionarily speaking have such a desire? Human sexuality is very complex and science has not yet pinned it down.  Rather than seeing it as an attraction to something broken, see it as an attraction to something different (different, but just as valid).  While for many people those with physical disabilities appear grotesque or disturbing, for devotees they do not.
 In calling it a fetish, devoteeism gets criticized for fixating on the disability and not seeing the human being.  This is a grave misunderstanding.  In fact, my experience has led me to believe that devotees are better able to see the person behind the disability.  Because the disability is not frightening or strange to us, but is as appealing as a woman’s chest might be to a straight man, it doesn’t act as a barrier dividing us from them.
 Not only myself, but other female devotees I have spoken to, have reinforced again and again the idea that they might be initially drawn to paralyzed legs or amputated stumps, but that is just the initial attraction, which we all experience when we see someone we find appealing.  Devotees are still looking to connect on other levels too, to find someone that she can get along with and have things in common with as well as the physical attraction.  Does objectification happen?  Sure.  That is not unique, it happens where ever there are humans.
 A few creepy people give us all a bad reputation.  There are devotees who stalk people, who take pictures without the subject knowing.  However, that is very rare.  All the devotees I know, both male and female, are filled with guilt and shame because of their preferences.  They worry that maybe they are benefitting from someone else’s pain.
 Yet, they didn’t cause the pain.  Many disabled people, who have trouble getting people to see them as equals and as viable romantic partners, are glad to hear that there are people who find their bodies ideal.  It makes me think, there really can be “someone for everyone.”
 Interestingly, there are differences between male and female devotees (also called devs or devos).  The majority of men who have it are attracted to amputee women and the majority of women who have it are attracted to paralyzed men.  However, that isn’t always the case, there is some variation.  No one knows why this is.
 For all the curiosity out there about where devoteeism comes from, there is not yet an answer.  Theories have been put forth occasionally, but none that ring true to the real life experiences of devotees.
 For some, this attraction is just a preference and they can be happy with an able-bodied partner and leave the dev feelings for fantasy alone.  Others find it to be an important factor in looking for a life partner.  I often compare it to homosexuality because I think that it is a full sexuality in the same way.  There are some who are bi and some who are fully on the dev end of the spectrum.  Also similarly, no one knows what causes homosexuality or where it comes from.
 My intention was to give a voice to devotees, who are often misunderstood and villain-ized.  People don’t choose to be sexual deviants.  Many times they don’t want to be.  The people who have sexual preferences outside of what is generally considered to be the norm are not inhuman, they are not monstrous, they are not victims of abuse, they are not all that different from anyone else.

Elderly

Elderly

Older people tend to be slower to learn new skills, have difficulty in memorising and reacting quickly to instructions. Also many elderly people prefer human assistance to using self-service terminals. However, this is not insuperable with suitable user interfaces and appropriate training. Many elderly people use the telephone or video cassette recorder even though they may not be familiar with all of its facilities.

Many of the symptoms characteristic of aging are covered in other categories, Problems may include hearing, vision, dexterity, mobility and cognitive. Sometimes there is a combination of several disabilities stemming from the aging process. Many products are cross-functional addressing several different disabilities. Therefore, an aging person may not require a specific adaptive device for every disability. This should be considered when choosing an aid.

Dexterity Impairment (Arms/Hands/Fingers)

Dexterity Impairment (Arms/Hands/Fingers)

Reduced function of arms and hands makes activities related to moving, turning or pressing objects difficult or impossible. This does not influence speech communication itself but makes it hard to make a phone call or use a wide range of other equipment.

Deaf-Blind

Deaf-Blind

Refers to sensory impairment, visual impairment and hearing impairment, occurring in combination with each other. Frequently, other disabilities also occur with the combination of a visual and hearing impairment. The combination of these disabilities causes significant challenges to accommodation. Tactile solutions are often appropriate.

Intellectual impairment

Intellectual impairment

Refers to a condition where powers of comprehension, information processing abilities are affected to the point where it affects the persons ability to perform.

Cognitive Impairment

Cognitive Impairment

Affects the ability to think, concentrate, formulate ideas, reason and remember. It is distinct from a learning disability insofar as it may have been aquired later in life as a result of an accident or illness.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Heat Part 5

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How can polio be prevented?


How can polio be prevented?

Although polio essentially has been eradicated in the US since 1979 and in the Western Hemisphere since 1991, children and adults in Afghanistan, India, Nigeria, and Pakistan are still contending with the disease. There are two vaccines available to fight polio - inactivated poliovirus (IPV) and oral polio vaccine (OPV). 

IPV, which consists of a series of injections beginning two months after birth and continuing until a child is 4 to 6 years old, is provided to most children in the United States. The vaccine is created from inactive poliovirus, but it is very safe and effective and cannot cause polio. OPV is created from a weakened or attenuated form of poliovirus, and it is the vaccine of choice in many countries because of its low cost, ease of administration, and ability to provide excellent immunity in the intestine. OPV, however, has been known to revert to a dangerous form of poliovirus that is able to paralyze its victim. 

Polio vaccinations or boosters are highly recommended in anyone who is not vaccinated or is unsure if she is vaccinated. 

How is polio treated?


How is polio treated?

There is no cure for polio once a person becomes infected. Therefore, treatments are focused on increasing comfort, managing symptoms, and preventing complications. This may include providing bed rest, antibiotics for additional infections, pain killers, ventilators to help breathing,physiotherapy and moderate exercise, and a proper diet. 

One treatment for lung paralysis due to polio was to place the patient into an iron lung - a device that would push and pull chest muscles to make them work. However, more modern portable ventilators and jacket-type ventilators are now employed.

How is polio diagnosed?


How is polio diagnosed?

Polio is often recognized because of symptoms such as neck and back stiffness, abnormal reflexes, and trouble with swallowing and breathing. A physician who suspects polio will perform laboratory tests that check for poliovirus using throat secretions, stool samples, or cerebrospinal fluid.

What are the symptoms of polio?


What are the symptoms of polio?

Polio, in its most debilitating forms, displays symptoms such as paralysis and death. However, most people with polio don't actually display any symptoms or become noticeably sick. When symptoms do appear, there are differences depending on the type of polio. 

Nonparalytic polio (abortive poliomyelitis) leads to flu-like symptoms that last for a few days or weeks, such as feversore throatheadache, vomiting, fatigue, back and neck pain, arm and leg stiffness, muscle tenderness, muscle spasms, and meningitis

Paralytic polio will often begin with symptoms similar to nonparalytic polio, but will progress to more serious symptoms such as a loss of muscle reflexes, severe muscle pain and spasms, and loose or floppy limbs that is often worse on one side of the body.

What causes polio?


What causes polio?

Polio is caused by the poliovirus, a highly contagious virus specific to humans. The virus usually enters the environment in the feces of someone who is infected. In areas with poor sanitation, the virus easily spreads through the fecal-oral route, via contaminated water or food. In addition, direct contact with a person infected with the virus can cause polio.

Who gets polio?


Who gets polio?

Like many other infectious diseases, polio victims tend to be some of the most vulnerable members of the population. This includes the very young, pregnant women, and those with immune systems that are substantially weakened by other medical conditions. Anyone who has not been immunized against polio is especially susceptible to contracting the infection. 

Additional risk factors for polio include traveling to places where polio is endemic or widespread, living with someone infected with polio, working in a laboratory where live poliovirus is kept, and having your tonsils removed.

Polio

Polio, or poliomyelitis, is a highly contagious viral infection that can lead to paralysis, breathing problems, or even death. The term poliomyelitis is from the Greek poliós meaning "grey", myelósreferencing the spinal cord, and -itis meaning inflammation

Polio can be classified as either symptomatic or asymptomatic. About 95% of all cases display no symptoms (asymptomatic polio), and between 4% and 8% of cases display symptoms (symptomatic polio). Symptomatic polio can be broken down further into a mild form called nonparalytic or abortive polio and a severe form called paralytic polio (occurring in 0.1% to 2% of cases). 

Paralytic polio also may be classified as:
  • Spinal polio - attacks motor neurons in the spinal cord and causes paralysis in arms and legs and breathing problems

  • Bulbar polio - affects neurons responsible for sight, vision, taste, swallowing, and breathing

  • Bulbospinal polio - both spinal and bulbar polio
Many people with nonparalytic polio are able to make a full recovery, while those with paralytic polio generally end up with permanent paralysis.

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Deaf and Hearing Loss


Deaf and Hearing Loss

Close to 1 million Americans are functionally deaf, while 10 million are hearing impaired or hard of hearing. Causes of deafness include secondary effects of disease or illness, injury, long-term exposure to environmental noise, damaging reactions to medications, and genetic factors, among others. With the assistance of hearing aids and other assistive technology, however, being deaf may have minimal impact on your ability to live a fully independent life. The following articles provide more information about causes, symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment options as well as recent research findings.

Monday, August 13, 2012

Miss Wheelchair USA 2010 – A Role Model for Women with Disabilities

Phaedra Marriott-Olsen has been crowned Miss Wheelchair USA 2010. The Miss Wheelchair USA competition is very similar to the traditional Miss USA contest.  “The largest difference is that we did not do a swimsuit competition,” Phaedra said.  The contestants are judged on appearance, their accomplishments and goals. One of the major differentiators is that they are also judged for the work they do as leaders in the field for women with disabilities. The goal of the Miss Wheelchair America pageant is to promote glamour, self-confidence and community service. “Society just doesn’t think women in chairs are beautiful and the reality is we’re pretty amazing,” Phaedra said. Phaedra became disabled in 1996 after being hit by a drunk driver, but she didn’t let her tragic accident stop her from making strides toward preventing more drunk driving incidents from happening. Instead she took on the position of Director of Services for Mothers Against Drunk Drivers.
Phaedra is an inspiration and a role model for women with disabilities. She now represents others in wheelchairs throughout the country and she plans to travel across the country to attend various events to promote individuals with disabilities. “Just because you have a disability, does not make you a different part of society,” Phaedra said. ”We can still be active, intelligent people in our society. That’s my biggest goal.”

Rebecca Paton


A shiver of fear passes through Rebecca Paton when she thinks about her young daughter growing up.
It's not because she's worried about underage drinking or teenage tantrums.
Her daughter Sarah is six years old and requires high-level care.
She's unable to communicate and needs someone to feed her, shower her and change her nappy.
The likelihood is she'll never be able to do any of these things herself.
But when she turns 18, most of the services available to help with her care will end.
"When I look to the future, I'm shit scared of her turning 18," Rebecca says.
The former science teacher and her husband Tim found out Sarah had a rare condition called pallister killian syndrome when she was eight months old.
There are only about a dozen other diagnosed cases in Australia.
Sarah goes to Ballarat Specialist School where she receives various therapies and is involved in stimulation classes such as music and cooking.
"At the moment... she does amazing things every day and when she turns 18, that's going to stop even though developmentally she'll be nowhere near an 18-year-old."
The family has access to occasional respite, including three hours a week provided by Ballarat City Council.
But Rebecca says when Sarah turns 18, most of this will cease and there are very few programs that cater for adults with Sarah's kind of disability.
Sarah's ongoing care will fall on the family.
But one of Rebecca's other worries is not being in a position to provide that care.
"I guess that's coupled with the fear that if that was to happen in the current situation there is no real option for that - I can't think of any government facility or any private facility that could adequately care for Sarah to a point that I would feel happy," she says.
"It's me and my husband and maybe Hannah one day, it's sort of all on us."
It's hard to say exactly how a National Disability Insurance Scheme will affect the Paton family's day-to-day life.
Rebecca, a science teacher, hopes it will improve funding and wait times for equipment and increase respite and care services, enabling her to go back to work.
She says politicians need to consider how they would want the system to run if they were disabled or had a family member with a disability.
"No one knows when they might become disabled.
"Everybody is a chromosome, a trip, a stroke, a car accident [away], even an illness can put you into that category and you can suddenly find yourself or a very dear loved one with a disability."
The Victorian Government has committed about $40 million to host the scheme trial next year in the Barwon region, which includes the Colac-Otway and Surf Coast shires.
The announcement was made after negotiations with the Federal Government came under intense public pressure.
While Rebecca is pleased that the Baillieu Government has now set aside money for the trial, she says she wished it had avoided political point-scoring.
"He put us through unnecessary stress, just because of politics.
"I'm relieved; it felt like we'd been successful and that families with disabilities were heard and we actually mattered for a change."